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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi Foxsuperstar, welcome to the forum and thanks for posting.
I suggest that your boyfriend address this in the UK, as opposed to your trying to address from South Africa. As Nikki indicated, your boyfriend needs to explore getting you to join him on the grounds of your relationship. He may need to consult a gay-friendly immigration lawyer. Any large gay organisation in London should also be able to offer him advice.
Please keep us posted on your progress.
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