Posted by: Bulldog | 2005/11/25

What to do .....

Me and my girlfriend of one and a half years (also staying together) have been figting like mad the past month. She suggested that we take a break for 2 week, to get our minds clean and think about the releationship. She went to stay with a friend, and suggested that we both don't go out partying but rather take the time to think.

The first day she went out partying, the second day as wel - and last night she told me that she kissed another guy on the second night. Someone we both know. Someone we both met 2 weeks ago through a friend of hers.

I think the best would be to carry on with my life and send her on her way - with her new friend ???

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Well, whatever the original problems were, she has proved to you now that either her word is valueless and she can't be trusted to do as she says, or she has a very severe memory problem. Sounds perfectly fair to move on without her.

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Posted by: Bulldog | 2005/11/28

Thanks for the advise.
I have moved on with my life - and she is only a memory from the past

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Posted by: Lee | 2005/11/25

that is such a mean one to pull on someone... You know the song ..."wish me luck as you wave me goodbye" . I would say its time. If you get back together will you ever trust her not to do that again?

FInd someone who deserves you and your respect

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Posted by: Whattodo | 2005/11/25

Move on dude. It's impossibly difficult but she has betrayed you. Move on. She doesn't desrve you. Forgive her if you can but don't forget.

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Posted by: ASP | 2005/11/25

Yip, go on. It seems obvious that this is the reason that she went to live with her friend in the first place...

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