Our expert says:
If this is your home, you have every right to tell him to leave and to exclude him from it. Having cheated and lied about it more than once, the chances of him becoming faithful and honest are rather slim.
I agree with CPM, you should speak to a lawyer, perhaps at the maintenance court, and have a court decide objectively and for the benefit of the child, both that he should have to pay maintenance for the child, and what access to the child he should have. Be very cautious indeed as you say he is from a different country, and raise this concern with your lawyer and with the court - he needs to be reminded that kidnap is a serious criminal offense ( and is criminal even if it is your own child, if it is not done properly. Once the matter is before the court, this would become more formal and you and the child would have more protection.
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