Our expert says:
What exactly is it, and indeed, WHO is it you love ? If not the cheater he is, then is your love perhaps devoted to an unreaistic ideal guy you persuaded yourself that he was or coul;d become ? He is not "the one" --- nobody is, and when we insist on believing in "the one", or a "soulmate", we are imagining someone so perfect no normal person could ever match that fantasy. A "good person" does not cheat. Insisting that he was both a cheater and a good person, is like saying Hannibal Lector is OK, because he was very kind to his hitty, and fed her scraps of whoever he was eating at the time. Your continuing contacts with this guy are unlikely to bring you any joy or closure, rather than further opportunities for unrealistic expectations.
He has repeatedly proved that he has no respect for you, let alone love. Show some respect for yourself, and ignore him henceforth.
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