Our expert says:
Shouldn't you two solve the money problems BEFORE the marriage ? And don't you need good financial and legal advice before taking on the debts of a man who can't manage money and runs up large debts he can't cope with ?
And he has the cheek to complain that You don't respect HIM, because you're paying all the bills ? How about HIm respecting You because YOU are paying HIS debts and tidying up his messes ? ( And why, by the way, do you have two houses when you're in debt ? )
If he so badly wants to be respected, why doesn't he bother to act like a real man, worthy of respect ?he should try to Deserve it, not to demand it. From the sound of it, he IS manipulating you and using you, and doesn't appreciate it. Why isbn't he working to pay off his debts, instead of just getting drunk ? Pressing ahead with the wedding is not a great idea. And if he can't be bothered to join you in marriage counselling --- is there anything he CAn be bother to do, other than sponging on you ? He has zero investment in the marriage, nothing financial o emotional. Move on, you deserve more
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