Our expert says:
Fighting without doing unintended harm is hard enough to manage face to face - by SMS it is impossible. IF someone who maters to you annoys you by SMS or similar remote messaging - wait till you physically meet to discuss it. Firstly your communication then will be less ambiguous, and secondly by then you will both have cooled down usefully.
Here, with a previous history of a bitter end to the relationship, caution would have been indicated. You desribe a persistently abusive person - what in him do you love, and what about him do you miss ? And can't you find even better examples of whatever these factors are, in someone who is not an abuser ?
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