Our expert says:
he sounds selfish and a user, or am I missing something in this story ? You need to see a good lawyer, he can't simply demand access, though he may be able to get it. And he can be forced to pay regular maintenance. And you are absolutely right to recognize the risk that he could leave the country and try to take the child with him, so again, discuss this with your lawyer. Check for a law Clinic at your nearest Law School. Also, talk to the people at your magistrate's Court / maintenance COurt.
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