Our expert says:
Let's see what our regulars have to say about this, after the weekend. It sounds as if she doesn't really reliably know WHAT she wants. Your reaction to her thoughtless and unkind departure, and her equally thoughtless and unkind re-appearance, is perfectly reasonable. You need to consider your own feelings and needs, now, more than
hers. You can explain that you have excellent reasons for feeling hesitant to accept her back into any close relationship, because of the way she has behaved in the past, and your concern that she could do the same again in the future. At any rate, don't just take her back as if nothing had happened, but do have a proper discussion with her of these events, your reactions, and your concerns.
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