Our expert says:
You seem not to recognize that all that you describe is caused by the choices you make, not by "fate" or "destiny". You don't simply "always end up " with a guy just out of a relationship --- there are loads of men who are not in that state. Maybe you seek them out without recognizing how you are doing so ; maybe they're more accessible and vulnerable. At any rate, its very easy to check this when you meet a guy, and make polite excuses if this is his state, and carry on looking for someone free from emotional entanglements. You got involved with a guy you KNEW fitted within this category, and hung around with him until you began to develop feelings for him, and then stayed on while they bloomed --- none of that was required. nYou don't even need to know "why" you go after such guys, you just need to recognize THAT you do, and avoid it. And counselling may help you to enhance your self-respect and feel more confident looking for less vulerable guys --- otherwise you're like a lioness preferring prey that is already wounded
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