Posted by: stella | 2009/04/08

what is this

i have been seeing this guy on and off for 3 years now i gave birth to our daughter last year december our relationship is still the same he comes when he feels and i cant say we are together and i cant say we not together i love hom so much am i crazy to believe that we will be together one day or is there just something wrong with me.he supports her financially but thats it

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Why, oh why, do so many women decide to have babies with men they don't really know and with whom they have no secure relationship ? What about him to you find so loveable, in the disrespectul way he treats you and his child ? Are you really in love with him, or in love with the idea of being in love, and have chosen him to be the target of that love ?

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Posted by: Real | 2009/04/08

He might be married or he is committed to someone else or having his cake both ways.Ask urself when he' s not with u where is he?

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Posted by: Soul | 2009/04/08

Stella 3 years down the line and you have a child with him and his not commited to you he comes and he goes as he pleases, there is something wrong with that. If he hasn' t commited to you in that time then he won' t commit to you at all.

The only way you truely going to know is by speaking with him. You' ve made things very easy for him why would he want to leave when he has it so good.

Get answers from him and truethful ones then make your decision, I think you already know what that will be if you look deep down inside you.

You and your baby deserve better than this, you know you do.

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Posted by: LOL | 2009/04/08

what is this you ask? well, it is unfortunate. unfortunate that you are wasting your love on some guy that doesnt really care.

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