Our expert says:
Why have you not been to the Maintenance COurt for him to be COMPELLED to pay proper maintenance for his child ? Deadbeat dads should never be encouraged to ignore their responsibilities.
ON visitation, better have this laid down by the court, and emphasize that this is for the benefit of the CHILD, not for him, and must be regular, and not only when he feels like it, otherwise disappointing the child. Have it laid down officially, rather than letting this childish and selfish man do as he pleases. Fortunately, "Zulu men" as such are not like that, nor are any other men. SOme men are like that, and need to controls a court can help to bring to the situation
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