Our expert says:
Sounds needlessly complex, when even normal life is challenging enough, these days. Why stay in contact with the guy who gives you butterflies if you have decided not to seriously proceed with that relationship. Simply a passion for Lepidoptery ? I'd think that things with your fiancee, both physical and romantic / emotional would be damaged by your hanging on to the other guy. She who insists on having her cake and eating it too, often goes hungry in the end.
Counselling would help
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