Posted by: Lee-Ann | 2004/11/29

What advice can u give me?

I have recently met a wonderful guy, well behaved and well mannered the problem here is that there is no mental chemstry between us, i feel that i might end up getting frustrated in this relationship. What advice can u give me?

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Wat can I say ? There are loads of wonder, well-mannered guys out there you are not in love with. So maybe he'd be a good friend ( so long as he knows that friendship is all you actually want ) but you don't want this to become a drab unromantic romantic relationship.

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Posted by: D | 2004/11/29

Hi Lee-Ann. I was in a similar situation a year ago and we recently broke up. That was one of my reasons - we had nothing in common and we couldnt talk about any deep issues. I thought I could get around it, but it beat me in the end. I became frustrated and bored and looked for alternative ways to stimulate my mind, like picking fights. Dont do it, it will only cause you heartache at the end of the day and also wasted time! Good luck.

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Posted by: Lee-Ann | 2004/11/29

Thanks shaun,

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Posted by: Shaun | 2004/11/29

Hi Lee-Ann,

My opinion is that you be fair to yourself & him. You say you feel nothing for him, so I would suggest not turning it into a romantic relationship.
Anyway, why can't your'll just be friends?
It seems you know you're not gonna be happy, so I would say don't make another person unhappy as well.

Anyway, the choice ultimately is yours. You never really know...


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