Our expert says:
It may be that you need to spend more time and attention on foreplay. What used to happen very naturally and quickly in a newer relationship, now can take more time. You need to explain to your partner that you still have all the loving feelings for him that you always have had but that you need to have more attention to touching in areas which you enjoy and which then can stimulate more arousal and lubrication, before penetration or intercourse is attempted. This is important as men can often obtain an erection very quickly and if penetration is attempted too soon, it can be painful. Why not also buy a lubricant which can help.
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