Our expert says:
I tend to agree with your point of view - he really has no need to apologise to you - unless he has been exercising his voyeuristic interests by peeping at you personally.
It can be important to distinguish between fantasies ( things someone may enjoy thinking about ) and things they actually do. Sometimes the doing of would be criminal, while the thinking of, would be something other people wouldnt notice or complain about.
Many people have little kinks which, thought about, may be a sort of condiment in spicing their otherwise legitimate sex life. That's different from spending his nights climbing trees outside other people's homes, with binoculars.
Its not clear from your message whether he's a thinker or a doer.
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