Our expert says:
By the sound of it you need to find a way that works for both of you. It could that he is not feeling in control with you on top and or that the blood flow is limited. Many women also manage to reach orgasm when they have clitoral stimulation simultaniously with penetration. Maybe if you explore that during a position that works for him it could help. Otherwise it could be helpful to seek the professional guidance from a psychologist that could guide you both in addressing the concerns and looking at different options.
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