Our expert says:
I think in recent years some sections of society have vreated wildly unrealistic models mof "the wedding", with the bride qas a Princess preparing for an elaborate coronation, and expecting to be treated royally. Miles away from the old idea of a simple and sincere religious ceremony ( whatever the religion ) and becoming a major display of family wealth and influience. Not only is this needlessly expensive ( money that could be far better used to enable the couple to invest in home and work in their early years ) but expectations become so high that they are inevtiably disappointing. I think it is the marriage which you should both ( the couple ) work to make the happiest time of your life --- not just the wedding itself.
And I think that the modern extravagent view of weddings greatly add to the inevitable emotional swings of any normal marriage.
I'm sorry if this doesn't sound very supportive, because it is well meant. Expecting less, you might get more. Ride it out, avoid undue inflation of the festivities, and concentrate on the central relationship with your excellent fiancee --- THAT'S what it should all be about.
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