Our expert says:
Weak, see a psychologist by all means, and discuss self-esteem by all means, but for YOURSELF< not for your husband, and make it very clear to the psychologist that even if your husband pays her/his bills, the shrink is working for you and reporting to you, and nobody else. See a lawyer of your own, to best protect your own interests. And maybe tell your husband that he's hardly the trophy husband you might choose, and his boobs aren't much to write home about, either. Don't let rejection by someone unworthy, indeed someone who himself deserves rejection, distress you. You're strong, and essential to the happiness and health of your child, so don;t even imagine dying to make things convenient for your unpleasant husband. Maybe buy one of those blow-up plastic sex dolls from a sex-shop for him, and seek out and leave lying round some urologist's pamphlets about erectile dysfunction and penis enhancement surgery.
I agree with Shaun's diagnosis here !
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