Our expert says:
If there are real issues, and he is foolish enough to refuse relationship counselling to sort them out, and insists on the ridiculous suggestion "marry first, sort it out later", then he's an idiot and you should very seriously reconsider marrying someone who is busy proving himself to be so unable to deal with significant problems. Make it totally clear to him ---no therapy ( and with his sincerely and active participation ) --- no marriage. Don't leave it to him to arrange this --- make the appointment and take him along. Get it started. Don't make the crisis over whether or not he makes an appointment, but over whether or not he joins in therapy and works properly on it.
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