Our expert says:
There are two perspectives that need to be taken into account - rightness or wrongness legally, morally, and for your marriage. The legal perspective (not that I'm a lawyer!) might suggest that she is consenting as she SEEMS to be doing it knowing that you are watching (that is also assuming she is of consenting age/ability! The moral perspective is up to your sense of morality. A rule of thumb I find helpful to establish whether you are doing something 'wrong' for your marriage is to ask yourself why you haven't told you wife. This suggests that at some level you know she would not be happy with this and therefore would be 'wrong' for the relationship.
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