Our expert says:
TR, some people are bad=tempered, grumpy, and that's unpleasant, but commonplace. And many marriages have issues, like one spouse's family, about which they regularly argue. And when throwing things, and slapping, etc., becomes part of it, as Lulu says, that's Wrong. It might not legally amount to Abuse, but that's not what's important. See if, between arguments, you can talk reasonably with him, and persuade him that aspects of your relationship are not happy for either of you, and that you'd like to try to see if you two can sort it out --- will he join you in marriage counselling, to see what can be achieved. If he refuses, seek counselling for yourself, to sort out your best options.
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