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Posted by: want to know | 2005/11/21

Wat het HIER gebeur?-Advies Seblief

Hi?

Ek en my ou is amper 2jaar bymekaar.Verlede week ee Saterdag,het ek en 'n klomp vriende gesit en drink.Ek was leka dronk,maar darem by my volle bewussing!
My ou was net so dronk.Die aand toe ek gaan slaap het.het my ou probeer om my "gereed" te kry vir seks,ek was al by daai tyd baie dronk en was nie lus vir seks nie,wel my ou sal dit kan gesien het,maar tog het hy aangegaan,geen omgaan nie,maar wel tot die daad!Ek is net nou baie ontsteld oor die hele affere,want volgens my was dit nie reg nie.Ons het die sondag daaroor gesels,en hy't gese,hy's jammer en so aan.

Ek wil net weet wat julle/CS dink van die gebeurtenis.Ek voel nie leka hieroor nie.

Baie dankie
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You're right, it wasn't right, for him to take advantage of your being drunk --- though he himself was perhaps even more drunk. The solution might be for both of you to avoid getting drunk again, in the future ?

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Posted by: Delene | 2005/11/21

LOLOL

Frosty sumtimes yer so funny!!!

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Posted by: Frosty | 2005/11/21

Haai ou Wantoenou. Jy moes getel het tot 3 jong en dan "no" gese het. Jy het ongelukkig by twee opgehou en toe seker uitgepaas ( one, two ..... No?)

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Posted by: ... | 2005/11/21

any sexual contact without consent is rape.... but are you sure it was apparent that he knew that you didn't want to have sex? Alcohol doesn't excuse behaviour but when two people get drunk and are behaving differently then its easy for signals to be misinterpreted..............

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Posted by: So-so | 2005/11/21

Advies is eenvoudig, moenie drink nie!

Net soos jy in "jou toestand" hom nie kon keer nie, so kon hy in "sy toestand" homeself ook nie keer nie.

Wens hulle wil drank verbied soos rook .........;)

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