Our expert says:
Is he getting paid generously for all this extra night shift work ? OR how else does he find this rewarding ? Is he trying to get away from nagging at home, for instance ? If the choice of times is up to him, then he is being inconsiderate of you and the kids. Whatitsworth is right, you need to sit and talk this through with him, calmly explaining your point of view. And Chelle's right too --- recognize and applaud his "provider" emphasis, but make it clear that you'd rather have a little less money and a lot more dad and husband around. Would he consider some sessions of marriage counselling ? ( if you could find a time when he, you and the counsellor are awake at the same time !)
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