Our expert says:
Dear t.b., let's face it. As Phumi points out, your husband is abusive. You ought to be calling POWA and sorting out how to escape from that over-controlling abuse. Of course you're welcome here ( I don't know if POWA has an active website, they ought to --- try a SA web search and let us know ). What would be his attitude if you decided to physically go to see a counsellor ? ( via POWA or Lifeline or wherever ? )
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