Our expert says:
I am delighted that you are searching for the clitoris, since that is the female pleasure center, or "joy button." The clitoris is a hooded body part at the top of the genitals, above the urethra and below the pubic bone and hairline. Human sexuality and human anatomy texts often have photographs or diagrams of the vulva and its parts which you can both use as a map to find her clitoris (what a treasure hunt!). A health care provider can also show your girlfriend where her clitoris is.
Female anatomy can be pretty confusing since there is a lot going on "down there." Women, unfortunately, are not encouraged to look at their vulva and identify their many intricate, delicate, and powerful parts.
Your girlfriend needs to learn how to make her clitoris respond to stimulation, and, thus, spring to life. Then she can teach you what works for her.
You and your girlfriend can read questions in the archives.
Dr Elna McIntosh
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