Our expert says:
I can understadn how awfully annoying tis must be for you, and it sounds as if he's behaving very shabilly. But how would cheating on him, and cheating on the wife of your friend at work, help ? this is a bit like saying : "My husband has developed TB --- I've decided to get my own back on him, and to go out and catch TB too !"
I truly think you should be wrestling your husband towards marriage counselling, and suggesting that your work friend get his wife involved in marriage counselling, too. That way there's at least a reasonable chance of finding a happy ending rather than more misery all round.
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