Our expert says:
As usual, Juzlisen makes several important points.
One has to wonder about who would have bothered to anonymously send you that email ( so easily faked ) and make those anonymous phone calls. Maybe the woman herself, furious because he did NOT accept her advances ? How would anyone else get a copy of an email she sent out ? What benefit would it be to anyone else to create this tension between him and you ?
I don't find it puzzling or suspicious that he doesn't want to create a confrontation between the two of you, as this would be likely to cause pain and embarrassment all round, and not really to shed any light on the issues that bother you.
If, as seems likely, the guilty person is the other woman, the more you create tension and problems between yourself and your husband, the more you will be satisfying her, and playing into her hands. And hernel is right, Ultimatums too often backfire in this sort of situation. Don't break up your happy marriage, damaging the two of you, because of the unsubstantiated words of someone else with highly dubious motives. If you ignore her, she may get bolder and provoke her own conrontation, in which case you can deal with that.
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