Posted by: cyte | 2004/11/01


Hi Ladies...

I'm in desperate need of your help, I'm a virgin, I tried several times to have sex with my boyfriend, but he can't seem to penetrate me, this may seem funny but I somehow don't know where he should penetrate, he tries to penetrate but I seem to close-up (tighten my mucsles). We used the KY JELLY but does not seem to help. I'm on the verge of breaking-down. I really don't know what is wrong with me, Sometimes I feel like going to a gynea but when I get there I feel scared and decide to leave because I'm so scared of the spaculum. Please help!!! HELP

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It sounds like you have vaginismus. There are exercises that you can do to help with this. The sexologist will be able to advise you.

Best wishes

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Posted by: cyte | 2004/11/01

Yes he is understanding my situation, yes you are so right I'm scared of sex my body never relaxes Idon't know why, is it maybe a psycological problem????I DON'T KNOW, but now it's up to me to make all this situation alright, is there a place I could got to for help. I really am desperate and I'm willing to pay anything just to make this right>>>>>PLEASE HELP!!!

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Posted by: .. | 2004/11/01


it seems that you are very stressed and maybe a bit scared of having sex??youre body needs to be totally relaxed and your are gonna want to have sex for your body to totally except everything thats about to is a wonderful thing and it should happen in a loving commited shouldn't tense you.I hope your boyfriend is unerstanding your situation??

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