Hi Ladies...

I'm in desperate need of your help, I'm a virgin, I tried several times to have sex with my boyfriend, but he can't seem to penetrate me, this may seem funny but I somehow don't know where he should penetrate, he tries to penetrate but I seem to close-up (tighten my mucsles). We used the KY JELLY but does not seem to help. I'm on the verge of breaking-down. I really don't know what is wrong with me, Sometimes I feel like going to a gynea but when I get there I feel scared and decide to leave because I'm so scared of the spaculum. Please help!!! HELP