Our expert says:
There are several factors that could be impacting on your sex drive. Women tend to experience increased stress; responsibility and expectations as a sexual drive killer – “I cannot even get to me…how in the world can I be expected to be wow in bed”. You are furthermore stating that you have three children and parents tend to focus mainly on the needs of their children and the needs of the parents and the adult relationship take the back burner. All of this can contribute to a lack or low sex drive / desire for sex / dry vagina during sex due to a lack of sexual excitement. It is advisable for you and your partner to make time for the two of you – not just time for sex; but time together not having sex at all. You need to find ways to look after your own and your relationship needs, It might be easier to address this with a couple counseling session – sexual problem are usually couple concern and the better you understand one another; the closer you feel – the easier it is to address. You can read interesting articles about sex drive; the disparity of sexual responses; etc on our website – www.sexualhealth.co.za. You are also welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
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