Our expert says:
This situation sounds way too complex to be dealt with over the net -- you need to see a good local counsellor and work through these questions in detail. What you say of your current bf sounds rather ominous as regards his attitude towards your older child. Sounds like a good idea to move in with your mom, and take time to think things through. it sounds as if you've been inclined to rush from one unhappy relatonship into another, without thinking out the implications. This current bf, as others point out, does not sound like a good idea for you and for your child--- if he's too selfish to accept her with love, you already know there are limitations on the degree of love he's prepared to give. That's never a good sign.
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