Our expert says:
Well, tatu, shaking isn't a convenient way of relating to ANYONE else, male, female or feline. Sounds like you may still have some element of confusion left about issues of affection, sexual / gender identity, and friendships, and by far the most useful thing to do would be to see a counsellor for a relatively short time, to clarify such issues, understand them ( and thus, yourself ) better, and devise a more comfortable way of enjoying relationships, whether friendships or boy-girl romances.
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