Posted by: t.A.T.u. | 2004/01/05


I'm a young woman who is deeply confused.....
I have a loving boyfriend who spoils me etc...... but I don't think I'm exactly straight..... i told him that......
I have never been with another girl... but I've fallen for many girls..... i think every one has been straight. I do not even know if I am this way inclined. but the thing is that i've felt nothing for any of the guys I've gone out with......
I've never done anything with any of the guys that i didn't want to so it's not that.....
I've fallen for a girl at work.. i don't think she's that way.. but everytime i talk to her I begin to shake... I'm sure that's not a normal reaction to talking to another girl if you just want to be friends with her....
please could you try to tell me what to do?
many thanks

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Well, tatu, shaking isn't a convenient way of relating to ANYONE else, male, female or feline. Sounds like you may still have some element of confusion left about issues of affection, sexual / gender identity, and friendships, and by far the most useful thing to do would be to see a counsellor for a relatively short time, to clarify such issues, understand them ( and thus, yourself ) better, and devise a more comfortable way of enjoying relationships, whether friendships or boy-girl romances.

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Posted by: k00s | 2004/01/06

shakin not a convenient way of relatin,,,,hehehe ,,,nice one

i must say its helluva refreshing to hav a young woman admit that she is deeply confused,,,,we need mor of yer kind

dependin on your age i might recommend u tryin the diff options & make your choice,,,,a very pragmatic approach u c,,,(dont ferget the rubbers)

btw tatu doesnt seem to b much offa hit anymor,,,how bout shakin stevana as a nick?

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