Our expert says:
So he is abusive and sponging off you, immature and indeed childish as well as unpleasantly aggressive ? Its not in the very least bit selfish for you to wish to avoid him. Its only unfortunate that you have felt you had to leave your own home and leave him in control of it. See a lawyer and get a court order to have him evicted, forcibly if necessary, and a restraining order forbidding him to in any way contact, approach or harass you or to return to the home. Then change all the locks and get a good security system.
He is very unlikely to change, and I'd doubt that he sincerely sees any need to change.
Also contact a group like POWA which advises and supports abused women. No child benefits from having an abusive bum around the home.
Its clear his promises to change are worthless, and only intended to persuade you to feel sorry for him and to let him continue to explot you.
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