Our expert says:
Sounds like he effectively just gave up after the severance package. His recent behaviour you describe is pathetic, and sounds like a guy who actually wants to get fired. Like MT, I wonder what he is doing with all this extra time. And like Jane, I wonder if you truly can't afford to move away from him --- looking after yourself would surely be sheaper than paying for him as well ? Then you reveal that he is an alcoholic, borrowing moeny to pay for his habit. Ultimatum time --- he joins AA and goes to a government clinic to come off the booze totally, or you move out and leave him to fend for himself
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