Our expert says:
Release yourself from this bitterness --- it must NEVER be about him "earning the right to see them' --- its supposed to be all about the kids, and their need to see him. Maybe he does try to buy their love --- or maybe he feels bad to try to see them when he hasn't enough money to spoil them, and then does spoil them when he can, out of feeling guilt for the times he neglected them. Keep reminding yourself its about what's best for them --- not to please hi or even you, but the kids
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