Our expert says:
So she copes with your being domineering, by being domineering ? And with your wanting everything your own way, by wanting everything HER own way ? I'm sorry you suggested Bipolar to her - in Bipolar Disorder, as I think I mentioned before, mood swings take place over days and weeks, not within minutes. And now she thinks, mistakenly, that you're calling her "mad" she may be even more reluctant to seek the help she needs. I wonder whether, if you arranged to see a marriage counsellor on your own, calmly and pleasantly telling her that you're so sorry she apparently doesn't want to come along, as you'd prefer not to talk about her without her being present, she might be more interested ?
And I can't help wondering what HER plans are for Saturday night ?
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