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Posted by: Mindful | 2004/11/02

Update - do I give him another chance?

Hi everyone, I just wanted to give an update. I'm actually still very much in two minds about it all, but his behavior is surprising me. He's put in so much effort! He's been e-mailing me and sending sms's, and he really seems sincere. Yesterday I finally broke and replied to him. He phoned last night to say how happy he was that I'd replied and he also asked if he was in the area during the day if I'd be willing to go have lunch with him. I said I didn't know about that. He's trying really hard, I can tell...(here comes the but)...BUT eventhough I'll admit I still feel a lot for him, I think I deserve better??
(I wanted to mention the David Beckham comment he made. He's a sportsman and he said he knows how DB feels, because girls just throw themselves at him all the time, and nothing's real. When I told him he should be relieved that he's lost one groupie he said that I was the only real one)...Ag, I don't know. I didn't like the nastiness, and it feels as though thats over and that makes me feel better, but I guess time is the only thing that can help me now?

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Hello mindful,
Ag, whenever women throw themselves at me, they miss the target.
Actions do speak louder than words, as I usually say. The problem with that is, that you can only assess the validity of his actions, if he gets a chance to act. Maybe lunch would be a test-drive ?

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Posted by: CP MOM | 2004/11/02

*keer ek my hand voor ek jou klap* goed so dan !

LOVE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR GIRLFRIEND !

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Posted by: Mindle....er Mindful | 2004/11/02

JA MA!

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Posted by: CP MOM | 2004/11/02

Ek sal die lepel bere tot jy weer post as Mindless dan gaan ekke jou boude stukkend moker okay !

nee nee sê net : JA MA !

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Posted by: lulu | 2004/11/02

You go girl! Moet hom nie so lig daarvan laat afkom nie. Sal vir jou duim vashou, ok?

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Posted by: Mindful | 2004/11/02

Thanks Lulu & CP Mom... partykeer wil ek net nie hoor nie! (En wie nie hoor nie, voel mos). Het nog geen belsuite gemaak nie. Net vriende is vir my hel moeilik...maar hy hou aan en aan. Ag wel. Bêre maar vir eers die pap lepel, I won't let him off the hook that easily! Actions talk louder than words or sms's or e-mails!

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Posted by: CP MOM | 2004/11/02

En volgende is jou boude hoor !!!! Met 'n hout pap lepel !!!!!!!

..................hee hee..............

(bly jy kan 'n grappie vat en dat jy my nie ook "aangevat" het nie..... tata)

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Posted by: lulu | 2004/11/02

Ek stem saam met CP MOM. Jy verdien soveel meer. En meer nog, hy verdien nie eers jou vriendskap nie! BLY WEG!

Sterkte en ek hoop alles werk goed uit vir jou.

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Posted by: Mindful | 2004/11/02

Nou brand my ore, CP Mom!!! Baie dankie :-)

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Posted by: CP MOM | 2004/11/02

Mindless - staan nader dat ek jou kan klap !!!!

Ek terg net!!

Mindful - Mens gaan jy KAN vriende wees met iemand vir wie jy soveel voel ? Ek dink jy't 'n totale break nodig van die man. And what's going to stop "woman throuing" (spelling) themselves at him ????

Agge nee man - jy's 'n wonderlike goeie mens daar buite is iemand wat jou gaan waardeer en vir wie jy alles in die lewe gaan wees....

GOOD LUCK and whatever ur decision we're here always *hug*

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Posted by: Mindful | 2004/11/02

That's a fair enough comment. However, I was deciding whether I should give him a chance as a friend again. Relationship-wise there is no chance whatsoever.

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Posted by: May | 2004/11/02


Not that I have read your other stories but this guy sounds like an idiot. If he recons that girls through themselves at him its obvious he cheated? He will hound you until you give in and then do whatever he did before all over again. Sending smses and emails is not even effort. He can do that to 20 woman the same time.

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