Our expert says:
Well done. Maybe its time for HIM to learn to love himself, as well as you, more effectively. There can be diferent, reasonable, answers to your question. I think a combination might work - a clean break ( too many contacts and taking of the emotional temperatures can make it more uncomfortable for both of you ) but maybe with an agreement to check back with each other after, say, 6 months, to see how things are going. Too short a gap, and he cannot prove what he says he wants to show you, that he can clearn up his act and become worthy of you again. 6 months, and then 12 months, would be fairer intervals at which to both assess whether he can and will do this
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