Our expert says:
Make it clear to your wife that you don't blame her for the situation, as she had received an offer too good to refuse ; but that you want and need jointly to make plans to find the best way to deal with it. Let her understand that while you think you understand her poin of view, and don't want her to feel guilty at all, you feel as though you're making no real contribution, and worry about not being the breadwinner. Of course, you apparently are still A breadwinner, just not THE breadwinner ; and apparently there's enough bread to go round. See what you can discover, jointly, in further opportunities for you to feel useful and worthy.
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