Our expert says:
You need to think about not just yourself but also your two kids who are still young and need a stable father figure who can serve as a role model to them. You and your husband need to communicate to decide what it is he wants out of this marriage. If you know he is sleeping around, than yes, HIV is a real risk. you should recommend that you both test and if he is unwilling to than you have a right to protect yourself by insisting he wears a condom. its time you reevaluate your marriage and your reason for staying in it. i advise that you speak to a counsellor/psychologist (with or without him) to help you find the most appropriate way to deal with this situation.
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