Our expert says:
there is nothing wrong with fantasy - everybody has fantasies - however, the only time it becomes a problem is when you act on your fantasies at the expense of your partner.
it is troubling that you have no sexual desire for your husband. your feelings towards your husband and the other man should be addressed by a professional counsellor / psychologist.
please call our helpline if you need the contact details of a therapist in your area: 0860 100 262
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