Our expert says:
I have had a consistent response in regard to this sort of problem, as you'll find if you check and search the archives of this forum. If either partner wanrts to take the other to a swingers club, the relationship is undoubtedly in serious problems, and couples counselling is really needed.
This sort of invitation suggests that he doesn't find the relationship with you alone to be satisfying in some way, but he needs you as a ticket of entry to the swingers club, which generally doesn't allow attendance by lusty single men.
And for him to push you into swinging and threesomes when he knows you are reluctant ( sensible you !) shows him to be selfish and uncaring. Leave him to his groups, and move on, to a guy who respects and values you in your own right, rather than as a handy entrance fee for group scenes
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