Our expert says:
He's not much of a Christian to want you to neglect your health and happiness. Wasn't St Luke a phyician ? Is he questioning Christ's choice of companions ? Sounds like he's being evasive about medical aid, an maybe also scared that they'll find that the fertility problem is on his side and not yours. For the sake of your life, as Chelle says, you should be getting checkups and pap smears. ANd you don't need his permission to care for your health.
Apart from the fact, as others hav said, that it can take some time to conceive even in entirely healthy couples, I wouldn't be in a great hurry to conceive by someone so uncaring. And what if you do conceive ? Would he refuse antenatal care or an obstetrician ? Would he prefer you to give birth alone, in the back garden ?
Sort out medical aid first, before taking any chance of falling pregnant
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