Our expert says:
I onder whether he even recognizes any positive things about himself. Some people grow to have a very negative world-view over-all, and have difficulty noticing what's right and good, and difficulty in responding helpfully to aspects of their life, or that of any others, which are less than perfect. This may fit your observation that even when given an excellent opportunity to recognize good things, he finds it awfully hard.
Maybe it's not rocket science, but it's an ability and skill you obviously have and he doesn't.
If you could persuade him to join you in mariage counselling, he might be able to learn such skills.
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