Our expert says:
Call Lifeline in the immediate future, to talk about this, and make plans to see a counsellor to help you work out the best solution for you. Sometimes people with brain damage can be impetuous and changeable and make hasty and ill thought-through decisions. I wonder what happened for him to suddenly make such negative decisions about you. And if all your money went into buying the flat, you are owed at least that amount, with interest, from the sale of it. You probably need legal advice to clarify what your rights are, and how to protect them. If he plans to stop paying the bond, how does he expect to keep the flat, and if not, where does he expect to live ?
Don't give up --- you are a valuable and significant person in your own right, and it must be possible to find a way through this crisis, with advice and support from others --- and maybe also explore the rest of your family, who may be able to help both with support and mediation
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