Our expert says:
I don't know who has been encouraging people to CONFRONT each other and issue ULTIMATUMS as a way of trying to solve problems. Except uncommonly within proper skilled counselling / therapy, these are usually methods that cause more conflict and misery. See a marriage counsellor together and work on those trust issues --- and these are issues involving BOTH of you, with BOTh needing to change and compromise.
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