Posted by: me | 2007/06/22


My sister once had an affair with a married man and he left his wife and married her. She has 2 kids from him. While pregnant with her 2nd child he leftat a friends house never to be seen again. They divorced he remarried his 1st wife. My sister was homeless. I took her in and her baby for the weekends and provided for her and her baby right down to her baby food. My elder sister cared for her son monday to friday at no charge. after her 2nd child was born she gotr a place and moved on her own. During this time whatever gifts we bought her kids, if considered it cheap she would give it away. She used to also pick on the way i raise my kids. She remarried and has another 2 kids. She and her present husband are always fighting... she is very jealous when he has to visit his mum, brothers, sister. theres always fights. She even makes remarks that he must sleep with his mum and sister. She swears her kids, beats them. the entire neighbour hood knows when they are fighting. In december heavily pregnant she left home late in the nite. She told us that her husband was drinking and was abusive to her. Later that month when she was at hospital her neighbour enlightened me as to what happens, the vulgar language to her kids and husband. I also learnt that the nite that she left home the problem was because she took her husbands clothes and gave it to a man walking in the street. She has always complained that her husband is abusive, even called me out late in the nights when they had problem. She even teaches her eldest daughter to lie to her husband. Her who is 13 has on a numerous occasion tried molest the little sister of 3. i initially said to her when she told me she was pregnant why dont u think about having seeing that u are having so much of problems and u already hav 3 kids. During my conversation with her neighbour i had not said anything about her aborting this child as the child was already born. She is now accusing me of saying that i sasid to her friend that she has so many problems y doesnt she have an abortion. She does not want 2 talk to me anymore. She goes around to sister in laws and says things about me and they hav turned against me. She even makes up stories to them. she has done the same thing to our elder sister a few years back. Should i just ignore her. Should i tell her what her neighbour said? Help!!!!!

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