Our expert says:
Make it a policy for the future to assume that these guys are NOT and NEVER different, until they have exhaustively proved to be different - and that has to happen before they ever move in.
When someone "just moves in" without your consent and against your wishes, that's potentially criminal, and you can have them removed.
It sounds as though you're being too passive, and givin him far too long to make up his mind. Tell him to move out TODAY or this weekend, or you will get a restraining order and have him removed. YOu need to be firm, rather than sending mixed signals. Continue to do the best for you and for the children, and you know this guy is not it !
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