Our expert says:
You need to remember that whilst sex is essentially about reproduction, we like to enjoy it for other reasons including sexual pleasure and feeling close/connection with our partner. It sounds like right now you are focusing on the first and forgetting the other two. The pressure that can be put on a sexual relationship can really have a big impact on the relationship thereafter. I recommend therefore that you focus on the last two aspects too - focus on the connecting part, focus on pleasure and you can still try to make sure that when it's time for his orgasm that it takes place intravaginally - but play for a while.
Claire - SASHA
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