Our expert says:
YOu're tackling several individually challenging tasks at the same time, so its not surprising this isn't proving easy. Getting through and over a divorce isn't easy. Getting a job in this economic situation isn't easy. Re-establishing yourself back in SA isn't easy.
Counselling can help re-evaluate the situation, your needs, wishes and options. Maybe look at how you have made bad relationship decisions in the past, and how to become less "usable".
So you have become discouraged - rather an apt word, as one has suffered a leakage of one's courage.
If there is an element of Depression developing, this can be helped through a shrink's treatment, medicinal and/or therapy, and should be available thropugh the state health sector and not only privtely.
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