Our expert says:
Sexologist
you need to respect your partner's wishes. anal sex can be uncomfortable if the correct procedures are follwed (ie: lube) and the muscles are sufficiently relaxed. maybe you could rather approach her by having penis-vagina sex but in the process insert a lubricated finger into her anus. once the body becomes used to the various sensations, you could increase the size of the implement.
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